Showing posts with label matrimony. Show all posts
Showing posts with label matrimony. Show all posts

Sunday, June 6, 2010

How to Create a Good Online Matrimonial Profile



This article will explain you briefly about the most important things you should consider while creating a good online matrimonial profile. If you are looking for a bride or a groom online then just signing up on online matrimonial sites is not enough. Once you post your profile online then it will compete with thousands of other matrimonial profiles. Whenever you create your online matrimonial profile do consider these things. Just Remember, marriage happens once in a life-time, so represent yourself at your best.
1. RECENT PHOTO: The most significant part of creating a good matrimonial profile is your photo. Many people are very shy about putting their photo online, but the truth is that when there are lacs of other profiles with photos and if you don't put yours then it is a disadvantage to you. Photo increases responses by 10-15 times.
2. PROVIDE COMPLETE INFORMATION: Fill all the matrimony related info in your profile. It helps the other member to understand you, your thoughts, your family etc. Many people feel that by specifying everything in the paragraph is good enough, but that's a wrong practice. Those details are hardly read by few people; you still need to follow the formats presented by these sites.
3. WRITE ABOUT YOURSELF: Be elegant about disclosing about yourself. Just give brief information but significant information. Lengthy profile can make your profile boring. Specify your professional and educational background. Write briefly about your family members and how many brothers and sisters you are and the profession of your parents. And most important what are your expectations from your prospective partner.
4. LOG-IN REGULARLY: Creating a profile on any matrimonial site is not more than enough; you should also log-in regularly and show your interest to other members who match your criteria. Instead of waiting for other members to contact you kindly initiate contact from your end.
Kaveendra Singh writes on behalf of mangliks.com, which is India's fastest growing matrimonial website, provides online Indian matrimonial services. Mangliks.com enables user to create a matrimony profile on the website and allow prospective grooms and brides to contact each other. Users can search for profiles through advanced search options on the website. Users can avail free registration and make initial contact with each other through services available on mangliks.com via Chat, SMS, and e-mail.
For more information log on to: http://www.mangliks.com/

The Art Of Writing A Matrimonial Profile



You have taken a decision to get married. Then it is the right time that you learn how to create a Matrimonial Profile. There are several things that you should know before you commit yourself to enter into a relationship. Writing a Profile for a job is different from writing a Profile for your Marriage. Here you do not need any marital experience, unless you are in a situation to go for a second marriage.
If you happen to read a few Matrimonial Profiles for selecting a spouse for your marriage, you will be having a calculated idea about your potential Bride or Groom. Yet, if the Profile you read may give some and do not carry the required first hand information, naturally you will move on to the next Profile to see if you could get what you need. You will repeat screening many more Profiles of Matrimony for making the dreams of your wedding true.
While looking at the Profiles with a cursory glance, think for a moment that you are searching a life partner for you. Then you will know what information to look for and what sort of information is not given in that profile, which you think is very essential for you to know and take a decision for a preliminary contact with the person.
Hence, remember that when you present yourself in writing, the reader of your Profile draws an imaginary picture of yours in his or her mind. It is your expression that could brighten or blur this picture you created in the mind of your potential spouse.
Honesty Gets Paid
Be honest in disclosing your details. You can give your original name or a nice, attractive and meaningful Nick Name. Your age is always calculated parallel with your Professional Qualifications. The more you are qualified, the less is the importance of your age. The Profession and the annual income too play an important roll in the selection of a spouse for Matrimony.
Try to give maximum information about yourself. Any Matrimonial Questionnaire covers most of the first hand information a potential spouse needs for the best selection of the profile holder for wedding.

Details of your parents, siblings etc. are an added advantage to disclose about your family set up and social status you enjoy.
Your personal interests, hobbies etc are helpful to judge about the personality and instinct you have within you.
Profile Description
When you write about yourself in the Profile Description column, please note that this is the most important column which will make the reader of your Profile of Matrimony to have a thorough idea about you. This is the column mostly plays the main roll and helps the reader to take a decision whether to select you for a preliminary contact or move on to the next Profile on the list.
Here you describe yourself in a very well articulated manner. Be truthful and honest in disclosing the details. Use polite language giving maximum information about your personality, your job, your earnings; any left out matter you think should be made known to your potential spouse for selection. You have 1000 characters to write well for your marriage. Do not fill the column with Dots, dashes or slashes. Doing so will only reflect your inability to describe yourself. Do not use any single character repeatedly to fill up the entire text box, with or without any space.
Positively write your Partner Preferences for Marriage. This will help the system to auto-match your requirements and send you alert if a new member possessing your Partner preferences registers in the system.
Adding Photographs
Finally, after submitting the filled up Matrimonial Profile, using the Log In and Password sent to your registered Email address, log in to the system, which will take you to your Home Page being created for you. From here you can upload three different photographs - one main photo and two other for the album, depending upon the set up of the program of the Matrimonial Website.
Photographs speak more than 1000 words. Let your photo be a good one, vivid and smart. A person planning for his or her Marriage first searches the Matrimonial Profiles with photographs. By adding the Photo you give your potential spouse a fair chance to form an idea about your personality coupled with the description you have given in your Profile. Photographs help take a spontaneous decision in the selection for preliminary contact for marriage purpose. It has been seen that the Profiles having Photographs receive 5 to 10 times more response from the potential spouses than the ones without Photographs.
If you are reluctant to display your Photographs and believe that though the photographs speak more than 1000 words, they do not speak reality, due to the absence of your photogenic face cut, then you could mention in your Matrimonial Profile that the same will be sent to the person separately on demand, or could be given on the first personal contact with you or with your family.
Naeem Syed is the Founder And CEO of Shaadmaani.Com A Social Worker And Responsible Citizen of India, Naeem Syed has a couple of Websites for the benefit of Citizens of this world. He writes on Social Issues and Cultures. Naeem Syed may be contacted at http://www.shaadmaani.com/ and http://www.amburnet.com/

Christian Singles - Arranged Matrimony and True Love



The modern Christian singles have some serious issues about arranged marriages and finding true love. The world in which we are living today has made us believe that anything arranged means that we were unable to find a viable mate to date and even marry later on, making it seem like we are losers. This feeling is more rampant among the youthful Christian singles who have not been involved in any relationship before. They want to get into the world with their heads held high, select a person they feel is the right one and with the use of the society's accepted criteria of choosing a partner, they jumpstart their relationships. Most of these relationships have either failed or led to divorces, or the partners have decided to persevere with loveless unions, since they don't want to be labeled as failures.
I am not saying that arranged marriages are the ones Christian singles should consider, but it is good to say that these relationships have worked before and most of them have not hit a snag. Every good and perfect gift comes from the Lord. We must realize that relationships are not to be taken lightly and if you feel as one of the Christian singles out there that you are not ready for marriage, then do not even consider having a dating relationship.
There is true and active love in arranged marriages, as compared to the notion that many people have regarding arranged marriage, that it is mostly guided by duty and not love. Love is a term that has been misused and has led to the demise of many relationships. Christian singles should not discredit arranged marriage, since they represent what has happened many a times in the bible. After Isaac, son of Abraham reached the age of marriage, a marriage had to be arranged for him, and in each and every step God was involved, giving guidelines and choosing the right girl for youthful Isaac. This is the relationship that gave birth to the tribe of Israel and God's hope for the redemption of mankind.
The good thing with arranged marriages is that the individuals who have arranged it for you know you very well as to know the right person who can suit you fine. This is what has made Christian singles to disregard it, since they don't appreciate the notion that people know them well than them. Even your friends can arrange a marriage for you, and since they have interacted with you and know your criteria towards holy matrimony, they can find you the best, whether you like it or not.
Those Christian singles who discredit this form of marriage have said that they lack in love and replace it with duty. They are mistaken. A union between two people who love each other means that the two individuals have found that their duties are towards the satisfaction of the other partner. Love is about duty, since you cannot help or make anyone comfortable for the rest of your life out of mere duty, but you can do so if you love them. The duty will not feel like a burden but as a way of making them happy. It's what God wants every relationship to have.
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Matrimony, a Wonderful Form of Relationship



Living for each other and having kids which are their real symbol of love keeps this life interesting. Getting into Wedlock is the most interesting thing that could happen in anyone's life. They would have made this decision after knowing each other and sharing their love and affection for each other. This relationship could have started with a date or a friendship or even an accident but getting into matrimony would be the ultimate destination.
There are few easy things that the couple could follow to make their relationship more strong. The first and foremost thing would be the love and affection that they should have for each other. Being into wedlock is not an easy joke; it should be resulted because of the huge amount of love that each other share. In this relationship trust for each other also plays a major role. When you are into matrimony it is highly required to believe in each other in order to have that relationship last for long.
Express your love for each other by means of providing gifts and expressing your feelings through words which would highly help to tighten your bondage in matrimony. Romance, is the most beautiful thing, which makes this relationship more intimate and creates a great bondage between the partners.
With true love and affection getting into matrimony is very simple and it is only us make it very complicating even for simple reasons. So, do be honest and show your real affection for your partner to make this relationship a heavenly one.
As a famous quote says "Marriages are decided in Heaven", do get into this wedlock and enjoy the real love and affection of this relationship. Do not complicate things and have a great marriage life.